Such a fun evening tonight. Kaia has a friend over (this girl is a gracious guest and cheerful, undemanding company), and instead of all sitting in the dark staring at the TV screen watching a movie we have all seen five times, we just spent the evening together. Taco salad for supper, which they helped prepare, good table conversation, brownies for dessert. Then Twister (I won the Mom versus Dad round, proving that there is no justice in Twister since Samuel is more flexible and has better balance than I), charades, and a hilarious round of Telephone Pictionary. Our guest showed us how to make her family’s special lemongrass tea (delicious), then we all settled down while Samuel read us a chapter of The Hobbit.
Seems like time together now, for most of us, is rarely focused on people. We watch movies, or go places, or talk briefly about frivolous or mundane topics before adjourning to separate spaces with individual electronic entertainment — iPad, iPod, computer, video game, whatever. Evening time is often lost time, bleeding from homework to supper to tomorrow’s task list. But tonight we were all just people enjoying each other. (Oh, and I recently learned that this friend, whom we thought was moving, will be at school next year after all. Hooray!) Thoroughly enjoying the company of my kids and their friends is a blessing I pray never to take for granted.
